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The GROW Coaching Model

Thursday, June 24th, 2010

The GROW model is a coaching model that describes a very simple process that can be followed to help you work towards and to achieve your goals.

Goal

The first step is to understand what your goal is. Understanding your goal gives you a concrete objective towards which you can work, and the freedom to start doing so.

Make your goals SMART – goals that are Simple, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Time-based. This removes the pie-in-the- sky aspect of goal setting, and turns them into something that you can actually achieve. Having a goal such as ‘I would like to lose weight’ is difficult to measure and hence difficult to achieve. How about changing it to ‘I would like to lose 5 kg by December 2007′?

Without goals comes a lack of focus, and with no focus it is very easy to drift through life – just living from day to day, wondering why you are not achieving anything in life. How much harder is it to move forward without understanding where you are going?

Reality

The next step is to look at the current reality. Where are you in relation to your goal? Have you almost achieved your goal? Are you a long way away? Do you need to break the goal into smaller, more achievable goals? It may require a detailed and honest analysis of where you are, But having a deep understanding of where you are provides a very solid foundation of understanding what needs to happen.

Options

Once you understand your goal and your reality, the task is to find out how to start to move the reality towards the goal. At this stage in the process, you examine what options are available to you. This is where the planning takes place. There may be a single course of action, or there may be multiple options from which to choose. This is a good opportunity to go into some creative brainstorming, or to perform a SWOT analysis on the various options that are available to you.

Remember that at this stage you are not deciding which are the best options – that is for later. You are simply deciding on what the possible options are.

What

At this stage, we have examined the goal, we know where we are in respect to the goal, and we have examined the various options that we can follow to reach the goal. The final step is to examine the options, and to decide what the best option is to reach your goal. Note that you are not looking at the easiest option, but the best option. IE: which option is going to move you closest towards your goal?

Working the Plan

Working through the GROW model provides a very simple yet powerful framework to support you in achieving your goals. However, the work really happens not in the planning, but in the working of your plan. While working your plan, keep in mind how you are progressing towards your goal. Keeping examining what is and is not working in your plan. What might have seemed as a great option (the WHAT) might not have been the best choice . So try to have the flexibility to make adjustments when it becomes necessary.

Where to use GROW

The GROW model can be used in almost any aspect of your personal or business life, including health, wealth, team goals and career aspirations. Basically, GROW will work anywhere in your life that you are working towards a goal. If you would like to find out more, or to have some assistance working through the GROW model, please give us a call, and we will gladly assist.

Historical Note

There is a lot of uncertainty as to the origins of the GROW model. Several sources cite several different authors. To the best of my knowledge, it was created by Graham Alexander and brought to the fore by Sir John Whitmore.

How To Build Your Coaching Business With Testimonials

Thursday, May 13th, 2010

Why Use Testimonials?

Many successful coaches build their coaching practices by using testimonials. But many others either do not use them, or use them poorly. The fact is, a well-crafted, relevant testimonial can be a potent influence on your prospects.

But only if you know how to use them effectively. Read on to find out how…

What Is A Testimonial?

A dictionary definition is: “A statement, usually written, in support of another’s character or worth; a personal recommendation.”

Or more succinctly: A testimonial is a statement from a client that details the benefit they gained from working with you.

OK, So Why Are They Important?

Testimonials are important as they rely on Social Proof – one of Dr. Robert Cialdini’s potent factors of social influence. “Social Proof” is a psychological phenomenon that occurs in ambiguous social situations.

Under these circumstances, people who are unable to determine the appropriate way of behaving look to others for clues as to what is appropriate.

What Is Needed for Social Proof

Social Proof is one of the most potent factors of influence and involves seeing what others around you are doing.

We’ve all seen it before – we choose restaurants that are popular over ones that are nearly empty. The logic is that if the restaurant is full then it must be good.

The power of Social Proof is greatest, Cialdini argues, when three things are true.

1. You find yourself in conditions of uncertainty.
2. Many people can be seen engaging in a particular activity.
3. You believe these people are similar to you.

Therefore, the more people there are engaging in a given activity, the stronger the social proof. Likewise if the people are like you (dress like you, appear to be part of your demographics or psychographics etc.), their actions will be more persuasive.

Social Proof and Coaching Testimonials

We can utilize social proof via client testimonials to gently persuade our prospects to buy our products and services. If we use these testimonials appropriately in our marketing, we can leverage the legitimate social influence inherent in our client’s recommendation to grow our business.

Making Testimonials More Persuasive

We want to use testimonials that our audience can immediately relate to as coming from members of their group. In our case this would be people like our target audience.

People who have already attended one of our programs, gained value and recommend it to others are likely to influence the others by their testimonials. So these are the people we want to ask. But what makes a good testimonial?

Good and Bad Testimonials

Dan Kennedy distinguishes ‘Good-guy’ testimonials from ‘Outcome’ testimonials. ‘Good Guy’ testimonials say what a great guy Alun is, but are non-specific. They may be flattering to you, but they’re next to useless as a testimonial.

Outcome testimonials, on the other hand, are most effective when they:

1. Are based on the specific results your clients gained.
2. Focus on what happened differently after you coached them.
3. Are quantified in terms of money, time or both.
4. Are genuine, and appear genuine.
5. Are relevant to your target market.
6. Are given voluntary.
7. Are made publicly.

So You Want Outcome Testimonials In This Form:

“I did X (a relevant thing for your clients to do) with Alun and the result was (saving of specific amount of money, time etc.)”

- Full name, location, contact details

Your Testimonials Must Appear Genuine

Now, of course, I’m sure you’ll be using genuine testimonials, but they must also appear genuine – so the more specific you make them the better.

For example, “I made £17,312.53 in extra coaching income from just one of Alun’s ideas” is more believable than “I made £16,000 after attending Alun’s course.”

Also a client ‘AJ from Texas’ is not specific, and sounds made up. Anthony Jackson, Bank Teller, Fort Lauderdale, tel: 605-224-1817 does, however, sound credible.

When To Ask

Robert Cialdini says there are certain moments when his principles of social influence are greatest. So we can make use these moments when we ask for a testimonial.

He says that one of the best times to ask is after your client has paid you a compliment. Just ask immediately if they’d mind putting that in an email. Or if requesting an email is not appropriate, ask them to write it on a piece of paper.

Other times to ask, according to Cialdini, are after you’ve completed a specific piece of work, or after you’ve achieved a notable result. So this might be at the end of a seminar, teleseminar, coaching program or client breakthrough.

How To Get Testimonials

So now you know what factors make a good testimonial. And you know when to ask for one. So what’s next?

Ask for them! Yes, you do have to ask. And consider obtaining an audio testimonial.

But if you’ve done a good job, most people are happy to supply you with one. Just guide them to be specific. And once you have the testimonials, in writing, or in audio form – use them, and build your coaching business!

Summary

1. Testimonials can be a powerful means to build your coaching practice.
2. You have to ask for testimonials – ask after your client has paid you a compliment.
3. Ensure you get specific outcome-based testimonials, not ‘good-guy’ ones.
4. Make sure they are, and appear to be genuine.
5. Get testimonials from clients representative of your target market.

Productivity Coaching – Best Time Assets Of 2008

Saturday, February 27th, 2010

In a previous article I discussed Time Liabilities and how they can consume time unnecessarily. At the end of the article, I suggested my readers replace Time Liabilities with Time Assets. Some of you may still be looking for that perfect gift to give friends and loved ones. Consider giving them a Time Asset to help make their work more enjoyable or productive.

Here are some of the best Time Assets I am currently using and have used through the last year. These items have helped me gain more time and focus more time on my most profitable activities:

*Logitech VX Revolution Cordless Laser Mouse – This was given as a gift to me by a client a couple of years ago. Since then, I have bought a second VX: one for my desk and one for my briefcase. The performance laser does not require a mouse pad which allows me to use it in any situation, such sitting on a couch or even in my car. It sits perfectly to the contour of my hand. Time savings: faster use of computer both at desk and away from desk.

* Sennheiser PX100 Headphones – These inexpensive headphones have some of the best reviews on the market and are an incredibly good value for the price. They provide excellent sound clarity. My PX100′s fold up quickly and neatly in my briefcase which makes them perfect for traveling. Time savings: ability to quickly and privately listen to audio anywhere.

* Logitech Cordless Wave Keyboard – Not only is this keyboard extremely comfortable due to an innovative, ergonomic design, it is also extremely quiet. It has a smart array of quick buttons to programs any actions that I use often. The design is also intelligent for daily use; for instance, it has an extra-large Delete key and places the Insert button away from where my hands will bump it. (While this keyboard comes with a mouse, I stick with my VX mouse, instead.) Time savings: faster typing and reduced hand and wrist strain.

*theBoom “O” Headset – Simply put, this is the best noise-canceling headset on the market. I ran several thorough tests with this headset and found it cuts out absolutely all outside noise, from chatter, to wind, to huge dump trucks rolling by. I use this headset in many situations, from recording audio on my computer to talking on my cell phone. (Be sure to buy adapters that work for your particular phone or computer.) Time savings: reduced call times and more efficient calls due to sound clarity.

*LG 24-in. Widescreen Monitor – My laptop is my primary computer and I dock it and work every day on this monitor. The colors are crisp and clear from every single angle. It provides a lot of real estate for handling multiple windows. Someday I may get two of these monitors, but at the moment I see no need. Twenty-four inches provides so much space that having this LG is almost like having two vertical monitors. Time savings: reduced eyestrain, more screen real-estate and an overall more comfortable workday.

By: Crenshaw, Dave

Dave Crenshaw’s mission is to help you get more time. Dave has shown business leaders worldwide how to uncover hidden hours every day and increase their per-hour worth. Check out our Productivity Coaching, Sales Productivity and Entrepreneur Productivity website.

Anyone Ever Had Internet Marketing One-on-one Coaching?

Saturday, February 20th, 2010

I’m very interested in this field, but I want to make sure I start my business correctly. I think if I hire someone who is already successful at this, then it will increase my chances of success. If you’ve had this experience then what can I expect from coaching, do they walk you though with easy steps, or is it going to be much more complicated than I think. Your opinions Please.


In the Internet Marketing world or any industry it is about reputation. If you choose to do it yourself or choose someone to represent your company than you need to make sure you get published and brand the person that is give one-on-one coaching. It may be hard to find someone that is already a big name in the industry but if you start a blog and write articles for an Internet marketing magazine than you can promote that exposure. Good luck!